Fathers MUST spoil their daughters.
This scientific conclusion has been drawn from the decades of experiments I have conducted upon myself. I realized that my comfort level/my happy place, grinded in my psyche deeply by my father in my super early years, is what is creating my attraction to a certain type of men. After careful analysis, lol, the pattern has emerged. Every single guy I find attractive reminds me of my father in some ways and of a relationship I had/have with my father. No wonder I’m f*$(ed. I’m thinking that there is this natural attraction to a guy but it turned out that I’m just repeating one particular scenario that is comfortable and familiar to me. Over and again.
Comfortable and familiar scenarios, in this context, for many many women are not good ones, unfortunately. We often find ourselves emotionally and spiritually and sometimes financially deprived and we wonder, how did I get myself here? Haven’t I met the love of my life? Weren’t we happy in the beginning? I don’t really know what happened? How does this always happen to me?Read More